Whoop It Up!

As a waiter, bartender, banquet manager and party planner I have had a chance to see more than my share of corporate holiday parties and more than my share of unfortunate career ending events. You may find yourself this week or weekend in a hotel ballroom or restaurant with the people you work with everyday. Why do some people forget that they have to face these people Monday through Friday the rest of the year?

First, make sure your attire is professional. Even though you are not on the clock, professional dress standards should still apply. It is OK to dress festively with style but the ladies should watch how low the neckline plunges and how high the skirts shimmy upwards. Men should wear styles similar to how they are required to dress in the office but could leave off the tie if they are wearing a jacket, unless this is a stated formal event.

Limit your alcohol consumption to just a couple of cocktails over the entire evening. If you normally do not drink, don’t use this as an occasion to experiment. I’m sure you would prefer not to be the topic of water cooler chatter as your coworkers discuss your tabletop dancing abilities come Monday morning.

Do at least make an appearance at your work sponsored holiday event, even if you do not really want to go or if you have a scheduling conflict, if at all possible. Not participating could send the wrong message to your boss. Remember, eyes are watching your every move this evening so be on your best behavior!