And The Oscar Goes To...

One week from today is the 82nd Annual Academy Awards, also know as "the Oscars" or the gay man's Superbowl. There is no better occasion to host a few or a few hundred friends for a gala of your own to watch the show.

Make the arrival to the event special by setting up a red carpet runner from the street to your front door. Event rental companies offer these very inexpensively as well as the stantions and red ropes to keep back all the "paparazzi and screaming fans." Flank your front door with life sized golden statue cutouts available online from party supplies sites like Shindigz.com.

If you have room, a great way to decorate the inside of the house is to put up full-sized posters of all the films nominated for "Picture of the Year". These can be ordered through websites like MoviePosters.com. Make sure all the TVs in the house are on and tuned to the telecast, starting with the pre show red carpet arrivals. Some elegant, light hors d'oeuvres displayed prominently, served simply with Champagne or a full bar is all that is required, as guest will only need nibbles and drinks this late in the evening.

One other touch your guests are sure to love is a recreation of a movie theater concession stand. Drape a six foot banquet table with a luxurious red linen to the floor and top with an old fashioned popcorn machine on loan from the event rental company. Stop by the Dollar Store and pick up tons of boxed movie candies and line them up on the table just like your favorite theater does. The sound and smell of fresh popping corn and the array of indulgent sweets will have your guests thrilled with delight. May the best movie win!

Window Wash

Every summer, years before the installation of tilt windows in our house, my mother would send me up on a ladder to wash the outside windows. Putting a clumsy twelve-year-old up an eight foot ladder with a bucket of water and cleaning tools may not have been the best idea...but she did get clean windows out of it. Even though I hated every minute, I do still subscribe the her way of cleaning glass, even today.

A soft rag or small towel and a bucket of warm, sudsy water will go a long way to cut the dirt from the windowpanes. The best soap for cleaning glass, believe it or not, is cheap shampoo. Once the glass has been freed from all grime, use a small hand squeegee to remove the excess soap suds and water. Dry the squeegee between passes with a clean, dry towel.

To make sure that the glass has no streaks, polish immediately with a freshly crumpled piece of newspaper. The newspaper trick also works on mirrors, glass top tables and any other reflective surface to easily and quickly remove that haze that forms from traditional glass cleaners.

Mix Tape

For the past few years, I have enjoyed the modern marvels of the DVR (digital video recorder). While there are several brands of DVRs available like the TiVo service to boxes available from your cable company or satellite provider, they basically all work the same.

Having the capability of recording a TV show when your not available to watch is the primary purpose of a DVR, but there are so many other features that I love even more. I don't know how I ever watched regular television before.

When there are two things on at once that I want to view, I can watch one and record the other or just record both to watch later. The very best part of my DVR is that I can watch several hours of TV in just minutes. I speed through credits, commercials and lulls in the action, maximizing my TV viewing time, reducing a 30 minute show to about 18 minutes on average. Life without a DVR now is unimaginable!

Market Watch

Trips to the supermarket can be easy and quick if you are armed with a list of all the staples and fresh ingredients you need to prepare this evening’s dinner or this week’s meals. You may already take a shopping list with you when you head off to the market but did you know how you construct your list can get you in and out of the store even faster?

I like to make my grocery list, especially when I am doing a big shop, on the computer and then email it to my BlackBerry when I‘m done. Start by simply listing everything as you think of it. Just before you are ready to head off, take a moment to arrange the list so like items are together. Think of how your favorite store is laid out and list all the items you need together in categories or “departments,” as if you were actually walking though the store.

Once you arrive, start on the outside edges of the store and then go up and down each aisle from one side of the sales floor to the other, checking off the list as you go through produce, meats, dairy, canned goods, etc. Having a list in the order of the path you take through the store will keep you from running from one end to the other, saving time and effort.

Little Spaces, Little Puppies

With the exception of short periods of time, I have always lived in a small apartment or condo. With that in mind, there are some breeds of dogs that fit into that environment better than others. While I always strongly suggest that anyone looking for a companion visit an animal shelter to adopt, you can even there, seek out a certain breed or mixed breed dog.

Most types of Terriers including Bostons, Parson Russells and Highlands make good housemates. They do need some exercise everyday but they are very intelligent, well-behaved pooches. Bulldogs and Chihuahuas love to lay around and nap so if you are short on time or energy, they both require little outdoor activity. Short hair also keeps grooming to a minimum on both of these breeds.

Shih Tzu pups were breed to be house pets. They are trusting and require very little physical activity but keep in mind their long-haired coats do require substantial grooming. The graceful miniature greyhound makes a fabulous buddy in a small space and require the least amount of grooming but they can be prone to health issues like epilepsy and leg fractures, especially as a puppy.

Again, combinations of the above mentioned types of doggies make the best pets. Take a trip down to the Humane Society or the county animal shelter and look around. A little personality is sure to catch your eye and so will begin a long relationship between man and beast.

Pack Up The Truck

I am in the process now of packing up my apartment to move this week. If you are moving with either a moving company or renting a truck, here a are a few tricks to get it done without spending a fortune.

When scheduling a move try to be flexible. By picking a day mid week and mid month, prices can be significantly less than weekends and the end of the month.

Don't buy boxes and other packing materials from the truck rental companies. They mark up these items astronomically. Home Depot offers reusable moving boxes and other supplies for significantly less.

Movers are the way to go if you want to get it over quickly. If you want to save a few bucks, you can rent a truck and pack everything up yourself. When renting a truck, check your auto insurance policy...you may be covered and not need to spend the extra cash to buy the daily insurance the truck company offers.

Foaming Power

When I meet someone, their teeth are one of the first things I notice. I love beautiful, straight white teeth. Since white teeth are attractive to me, I strive to keep mine as gleaming as possible. While I have used bleaching trays and still continue to use them, they are not very comfortable to sleep in all night.

A friend of mine told me something that he does to keep his pearly whites looking good...hydrogen peroxide. I tried it for thirty days and it really does work. After I brush and floss my teeth, I take a big swig and swish around inside my mouth for about one minute. Before I step into the shower, I spit but let the leftover foam work itself up on my teeth and gums. When I get out of the shower I rinse with mouthwash. This daily regime keeps my teeth white between tray bleachings.

Layers Of Light

Even if I am watching my weight, I always think dessert should be served when you invite people over for dinner. Today, I offer one of my quick but fabulous finishes that will create a "wow" but is low in calories, fat and sugar while actually being very delicious...a layered fruit parfait.

In a tall tumbler, wine or martini glass, layer a mixture of blueberries, raspberries, blackberries and quartered strawberries in the bottom of the glass. Use whatever berries you have on hand or what is on sale at the supermarket, but try to select at least two varieties for color contrast. Pick up a ready-to-eat, six individual servings, container of sugar-free vanilla or white chocolate Jell-O Pudding snack pack from the refrigerated section in the dairy department.

Layer a heaping tablespoon of pudding over the fruit followed by another layer of fruit and a final dollop of pudding on top. Sprinkle the top of the pudding mound with ground cinnamon. Place the glass on a colorful cocktail napkin on a small plate and serve with a teaspoon on the side. See...dessert doesn't have to be fattening or difficult!

Stressed...Party Of One?

Sometimes things don't go exactly as they way we had planned they would. In a world of email, cell phones and instant messaging, we are always "on" and always connected. Constant stimulation of the brain sends our stress levels into orbit. Work, family and other commitments all are a demand of our precious time. The result of this can manifest as uncontrollable stress levels in our life.

While stress is our body's natural response to external stimulus, too much or exposure to very long periods of stress drains both the mind and the body and also can actually cause physical and functional damage to the brain and other organs. In order to minimize the effects of stress, there are steps you can take everyday to remove yourself from the situation, if only for a short time.

1. Get at least 7-8 hours of sleep per night in a bedroom without a radio, TV or computer
2. Maintain a healthy diet
3. Exercise doing something you enjoy at least 20 minutes a day, 3 days a week, particularly cardio
4. Turn off your cell phone, landline phone and computer for at least one hour a day and practice meditation, yoga or prayer
5. Say "no"...you cannot be everywhere and do everything that is asked of you
6. Prioritize your day...do the most important things first and if you don't get to everything, there is always another day, Scarlet
7. Don't multitask while at home...dedicate all of your energy and focus on one project at a time
8. Treat yourself to a massage or acupuncture to reduce your stress level at least once a month
9. When winding down for the day, instead of watching TV, put on some soft music, lower the lights and light some candles
10. Be kind to yourself and remember, there is just one of you!

Paint The Town

Today, I am off to paint the den at my new place before I move in next week. Painting yourself can save you hundreds of dollars in labor costs and is even fun if you know what tools you need to get the job done properly.

Before you begin, make sure the walls, baseboards and moldings are clean by washing them with a damp rag and mild soap and allow to dry thoroughly. Remove all nails, window coverings and hardware, light switch and electrical outlet covers and use blue painters tape to cover trim not being painted. Fill all nail holes with putty using a putty knife and allow to dry.

Move all furniture out of the room or to the center of the room, if large enough to do so, and cover with a drop cloth. To paint, you will need a roller pan, a roller brush, trim brushes and additional drop cloths for the carpeting or hardwood floors. Prepare the walls first with primer if you are going from a very dark color to a light color or vice-versa. Primer is much cheaper than actual paint, will neutralize stains, will cause the top coat of paint to adhere better and you will use less coats of the more expensive final paint color. Use a white primer when going from darker to lighter colors and a tinted primer when painting light colored walls dark.

If you need to take a break while the paint dries, put the roller or trim brush in a zip bag so the paint does not dry out on the brush. If you need to stop overnight, place the brush in the zip bag into the freezer. Allow the brush to thaw about forty-five minutes before painting again. When you are done with the project, dip a wooden stir stick into the paint and cover most of it to get a good sized color sample. Peel off the mixing sticker from the lid of the paint can and attach to the stick. File the stick away and when you need to do touch ups, you have not only a color swatch but the date you painted, the name of the home improvement store the paint was purchased from and the formula for mixing the exact paint color again.

Howdy, Cupcake!

Everyone loves cupcakes. Such a little confection can bring a huge smile to both the young and young at heart. If you need a little something for a birthday, holiday or just a take-a-long to your hostess, a half dozen of cupcakes make the perfect gift.

It has never been easier to find cupcakes than it is today. Gourmet bakeries specializing in cupcakes from minis to jumbos have sprung up all over the country. The little, rich, bite sized cakes are displayed like expensive diamonds behind glass but can be yours for just a few bucks a piece.

While you could buy your cupcakes, making them yourself makes the gift even more special. Cupcake making is a quick and easy process even if you don't normally bake. Cupcakes also let you get creative with the flavors and decorations. Some of my favorite are PB&J (yellow cake with grape jelly filling and peanut butter frosting), S'Mores (chocolate cake with marshmallow butter creme and graham cracker dust) and Peanut Butter Cup (chocolate cake with peanut butter frosting). Mix and match or give a pretty box of all one flavor. Add a colorful ribbon and you've got a gift not soon to be forgotten.

The Taxman Cometh

Your W2 arrived a couple of weeks ago, your 1099s are finally here. Its time to gather all that tax information and input those numbers for either a pleasant refund or a not-so-fun tax bill. If you planned ahead and are lucky enough not to owe a big tab this year, you want your refund as quickly as possible.

If you prepare your taxes yourself or have a professional do it for you, the best and fastest option is to E-File your return. While you may get your refund a bit faster if you go into a tax office and get a tax refund anticipation loan, you will pay through the nose for this service. By filing your taxes electronically, it typically takes about 10 days to get your money directly deposited to your savings or checking account and it is free.

A tax professional will E-File for you as part of their paid services but you can do your Federal taxes online very inexpensively or sometimes even free through services like TurboTax and H & R Block. Using one of these programs will make sure you get all deductions due you and make preparing your return yourself much easier than the old fashion way of years past. Get your taxes done now and don't spend your refund all in one place!

Suit Up

A man in a suit is a timeless, classic look. No matter if you pair a suit jacket with jeans for a casual night out to dinner or go for an ultra formal tuxedo, there is a suit for every occasion.

Unless you are stuck in the 80s or headed to a retro-themed prom, steer clear of the dated double-breasted jacket. The two or three button jacket is the best investment when you purchase a suit. While most men can wear either, shorter men tend to look better in two button jackets. Taller men can get away with two or the more modern three button variety.

While we're on the subject of buttons, some people are confused as to which ones to close and which ones to leave open. A simple rule to remember, from top to bottom... always, sometimes, never. Unless you are seated, always have the top button of the jacket closed, no matter if two or three. You should usually keep the middle button on a three button suit closed as well. The bottom should always be open. Styles change as the years go by but a suit always suits any dressy to formal occasion.

Put It Down On Paper

My memory is about as short as a two-year-old's attention span. My mother used to say when I was a child that I would forget my head if it weren't attached! The solution to my dilemma, list making.

I make list for everything. I always have a list going on the memo pad application on my Blackberry for the supermarket and Target. As I need something, I add it to the list and then when I'm actually at the store, I have it with me to throw what I need into the shopping cart.

Whenever I plan a party or do design work for a client or host a dinner party myself, I make a time line for the project and a needed item list to keep me on course as I progress through the task. Once I write it down, I can let that information go out of my head and refer to the outline when I need a reminder as to where I am on my progress.

Crossing off an entry as I proceed through the list also gives me a feeling of accomplishment and will inspire me to get going if I have procrastinated a bit too much on any particular job. Keep yourself motivate, inspired and in the know with list making... just don't forget where you put the memo!

Last Minute Rezos At Home

You have waited to the last minute to make reservations for a dinner out tonight for you and a loved one, haven't you? Good luck with that, my friend. You're only options now, a Whopper with cheese combo for two or make an intimate, romantic dinner at home. Pick the first option and see how well that goes over, genius. The only problem with the second option, you don't cook! Luckily, you can count on the supermarket to help you fake a great dinner that will have the light of your life talking for days.

A fresh salad of packaged, prewashed baby spinach with quartered strawberries, creamy goat cheese crumbles, walnut pieces and bottled poppy seed dressing kicks off the meal with a splash of Valentine's red. Stop in the meat department and look for fancy looking prepared stuffed chicken, beef, pork chops or fish. Follow the easy cooking instructions on the packaging and add a side of delicious long grain rice medley from a box or envelope. If you can boil water you can make this accompaniment in just 5-10 minutes.

For dessert, a sweet and refreshing raspberry sorbet caps off the meal, garnished with a fancy cookie. Select your favorite bottle of wine or Champagne, light some candles and spend an intimate evening for two at home this year. Happy Valentine's Day!

To Do List

Almost three years ago I left the stress of my job as an event planner and the cold winter of Charlotte to move to a more relaxing, warmer and tropical life in Ft. Lauderdale. If you don't live here and ever make it down for a visit, make sure to check off my "must do list" during your stay.

While in Ft. Lauderdale, make sure to cross over one of several causeways that take you over to the beach for some sun and a bite to eat at one of the great seaside restaurants such as Casablanca Cafe at Sebastian beach. From there you can see people come and go on the beach and see cargo and cruise ships waiting just off the coast for their dock time. Later in the evening, stroll down Las Olas Boulevard for some shopping and browsing in one of the many art galleries. A daytime boat tour on the Intercoastal Waterway to see the huge yachts and mansions is a great way to spend an afternoon.

A quick trip south down I95 to Miami Beach is also a must if you have never been. I suggest a Sunday afternoon drive down Ocean Drive in South Beach and then head over to Lincoln Road for a great lunch, some shopping and wonderful people watching. Lincoln Road is closed to vehicular traffic for about four blocks between Lenox and Washington Avenues and has a very European market feel.

Another overnight trip from South Florida is down scenic US1 across the 42 bridges to Key West, the southernmost point in the United States. Park your car once you arrive and tool around down on Duval Street. If it is blustery and snowy where you are now, there is no better time to hop on a plane to sunny South Florida!

I Can Feel It Rising

With the price of automobile fuel as high as it is these days, we need to do all we can to not only reduce the amount of gasoline we consume to cut expenses but also lower carbon monoxide emissions that are harmful to the environment. With that in mind, here are a couple of ideas to help you accomplish these goals.

First, when buying a new or newer vehicle, pick one that gets better gas mileage than the one you are replacing. While driving daily, try not to brake and accelerate quickly and obey the posted speed limit. Doing both can lower the amount of fuel your car consumes by 5-30% according to the US Department of Energy. Removing excess cargo weight from your trunk and turning the car off when idling for more than one minute goes a long way to conserve gas. While on the highway, use your cruise control if your car is so equipped.

Keeping your car tuned up and your tires properly inflated can save you up to the equivalent of 8 cents per gallon. Try to combine daily trips around town to conserve gasoline. Carpooling to work or staggering your work hours to travel during non rush hours will also allow you to pull up to the pump less often.

The Tipping Point

People who work in the service industry not only expect to be compensated by the people they service but depend on your gratuities, as they make up the majority of their income. In most states in the US, servers in restaurants make less than $5 per hour. I know from experience from years in the business that most workers get a check for $0 after deductions are made for taxes, insurance, etc.

Keep in mind that most tips you leave behind in restaurants are usually split between 2 or more people so dig deep. Be sure to tip fully on amounts of the bill that were discounted or free to you. Servers at buffet-style restaurants still should be tipped accordingly to how you would at a full-service establishment. If you pick up takeout from a restaurant, throw the person who takes care of you a couple of bucks as well.

With this in mind, I'm sure everyone wants to do their part to take care of the people that take care of you but sometimes it can get confusing as to who, when and what to tip. Below is a guideline for most situations. Keep in mind if you are high maintenance (and you know who you are) or the service professional goes above and beyond the call of duty, you should adjust your tip upward accordingly

Bartenders $1-2 per drink
Servers 18-20% of the total bill, including wine and other alcohol

Housekeeping - $1-5 per night stayed at a motel or hotel, more if you've trashed the room
Bellhop - $1-2 per bag, more if your bags are really heavy
Valet - $2 per car when you pick up your keys, more when you drop it off if know in advance that you need to leave quickly

Sky Cab at the Airport - $1-2 per bag (you don't want your luggage on a flight to LA if you're going to NYC)
Taxi -15-20% of total fare

Hairstylist/Colorist - 15-20% of the total bill
Shampoo Person - $2-5, handed directly to that person
Manicurist/Pedicurist - 15% of total bill

Pizza & Other Food Deliveries - 10% of total bill
Movers - $20-50 depending on the distance and weight of items moved
Car Detailers - 15% of total bill or $3-5 per car

iFruit

Everyday when I leave the gym, I see a big platter of juicy, red apples on the desk as I head out the front door. I have been watching my carbs and sugar intake for a couple of weeks now in order to shed the pounds I've added in the past months. So, after doing cardio or weightlifting, I have started grabbing one as a refreshing post-workout snack.

I'm sure you've heard the saying, "an apple a day keeps the doctor away" but do you know just how valuable a daily apple is for your nutritional well being? Apples contain no fat, no cholesterol, almost no sodium and are packed with antioxidants. Even though apples are deliciously sweet, they contain a relatively low amount of carbohydrates and unrefined sugar.

When consuming apples, be sure to eat the skin. Most of the nutrients, including vitamin C and fiber, are located there. A four and a half once piece contains 65 calories but is actually a negative calorie food... that means that your body burns more calories digesting the fruit than you consumed eating it. Apples are an amazing "wonder" fruit... start your regimen today.

The Key To My Heart

There is nothing more symbolic than the gift of a key…a key to the city when you’ve done your part to service your community; a key to your apartment when your relationship moves to the next level; a key to your heart when you are madly in love. Right now, you may be racking your brain, trying to come up with the perfect gift for your significant other for the swiftly approaching Valentine’s Day holiday.

Flowers fade, chocolate melts but jewelry is forever. This year, a charm in the form of a key on a beautiful necklace or key chain is just the gift to let your loved one know just how much you care. No matter if you are buying for a male or female, this gift is appropriate for either sex. Retailers from Target to Tiffany & Co. offer styles from sterling silver to platinum, so you’re sure to find one to fit into your budget. Wrap one up now in a fancy box with ribbon and see the reaction you get from such a simple trinket.

Peas On Earth

In a very small effort to do my part to reduce the cruelty to animals and pollution of the Earth due to factory farming, I switched to soy milk some time ago. While I have never been a huge milk drinker, I do enjoy vanilla flavored soy milk on my cereal.

Soy milk is produced from pressing cooked soybeans and is higher in protein and iron than cow's milk... but that is just the beginning of it's benefits. Soy milk is low in calories and fat, cholesterol-free, lower in sodium than milk produced by dairy cows and has natural cancer-fighting benefits for women.

I prefer the taste of vanilla soy milk over plain. Even thought low in sugar, vanilla flavored soy milk has a sweet taste than is amazing with cereal. I don't have to add sugar or Splenda when I use it, even on unsweetened cereal. In addition, I have introduced soy milk into cooking and baking and have experienced great results. The next time you pour yourself a bowl of cereal, give Elsie a break and try soy!

I Fold

If you entertain as much as I do, one of the best weapons in your arsenal is a six foot folding banquet table. This versatile piece seems to literally "pop up" at almost every event I host. When purchasing your own table, choose one that is heavy for the size so it feels like a substantial piece of furniture that is not wobbly or flimsy.

When I have more than four people over for dinner, I move the dinette set out, set up the folding table with a linen to the floor and pull out extra chairs to host up to eight people for a seated meal. The table also makes and appearance occasionally at cocktail parties to hold a buffet selection of appetizers. I use the table as a bar out on the patio when I host a very large group and the drink selection is too big for the kitchen counter.

Storage is very compact, since the legs fold into the tabletop and the tabletop folds in half. When you're done, slip the table under a bed or set upright against the wall behind your hanging clothes in a closet until its once again time to celebrate.

Stop Hanging Your Pictures Too High!

Have you ever walked into someone's house and saw art on the wall floating near the ceiling? I don't know what some people are thinking sometimes. Framed or unframed art such as photography and paintings or mirrors should be hung at normal eye level.

If hanging a piece over a sofa or buffet table, the art should be no more than about six to eight inches above the furniture. Unless you are hanging a grouping of several pieces, center the frame with the center of the sofa or table. If in doubt on how high or low to go, always go lower than you think you should. If you are hanging art on a wall without furniture underneath, the center of the art should be just below normal eye level, about five to five and a half feet from the floor.

Chandeliers over dining tables look ridiculous as well if hung too low or too high. The bottom of the light fixture should hang about 30 inches from the tabletop but make sure it does not obstruct your view of other people when seated at the table. If you prefer a more modern look, a height of 24 inches from the table also is acceptable. A professional designer look is yours if you know the numbers.

Finishing School

No matter if you are into traditional or modern styles of home decor, furniture sets are the boring way to decorate. When everything matches, your surroundings end up looking dull and lifeless. The solution...select things that coordinate, rather than match exactly.

When I decorate a room, I like at least two finishes of wood. Cherry and mahogany are one of my favorite wood finish combinations. Make sure to distribute both evenly throughout the room to make the space cohesive.

Like wood finishes, I also prefer a couple of different neutral fabric colors on upholstered pieces. Select your most comfortable and durable fabric, like microfiber or washable cotton slipcovered pieces, for your sofa or sectional. For occasional chairs, I always like to throw in a contrasting fabric like leather, silk, rayon and acrylics to spice up the mix. Finish the look with dramatic pops of color in your coordinating throw pillows and accessories.

Love Is In The Air

Chocolate, candlelight and music...the basics of St. Valentine's Day. No matter if you are hosting my "Italian Feast of St. Valentine" that I spoke of on February 2 or just need a injection of passion into the music shuffle on your iPod, classic crooners and the ladies of that area are just the thing you need to set the mood. Below are some artist and their tunes to be sure to include in your current play list:

Etta James
"At Last"
"Someone To Watch Over Me"
"Trust In Me"

Dean Martin
"Thats Amore"
"You're Nobody Til Somebody Loves You"
"You Belong To Me"
"Send Me The Pillow You Dream On"
"Everybody Loves Somebody"

Frank Sinatra
"The Way You Look Tonight"
"Fly Me To The Moon"
"I've Got You Under My Skin"
"Strangers In The Night"
"You Make Me Feel So Young"
"My Funny Valentine"

Nat King Cole
"Unforgettable"
"L-O-V-E"
"When I Fall In Love"
"Mona Lisa"
"Almost Like Being In Love"
"I Love You (For Sentimental Reasons)"

Bing Crosby
"I've Found A Million Dollar Baby"
"Love Is Just Around The Corner"
"A Fine Romance"
"Too Marvelous For Words"
"Somebody Loves Me"
"Be Careful, Its My Heart"
"I Love You"

Ella Fitzgerald
"Tea For Two"
"Love Is Here To Stay"
"Hooray For Love"
"Its Only A Paper Moon"

Sammy Davis, Jr.
"Easy To Love"
"All Of You"
"Because Of You"
"For Once In My Life"

Billie Holiday
"You're My Thrill"
"I've Got My Love To Keep Me Warm"
"Them There Eyes"
"The Very Thought Of You"
"It Had To Be You"
"The Man I Love"
"Let's Do It"

Start downloading these tunes now and let the music do it's part to bring that feeling of romance and enchantment to your home for the "season of love."

A Piece Of Cake

If I had a dollar for every piece of wedding cake I’ve served, I would be a rich man. Rectangular or square cakes are very easy to cut. Round cakes, especially ones with stacked tiers, can be more of a challenge.

For a cake 9 inches across or less, cut the cake in half from one side to the other. Cut a wedge off the left side of the half round and then begin slicing the remainder of the half cake in half inch pieces. As you slice each serving, let the cake rest on a cake server or spatula and move to a dessert plate.

For larger diameter cakes, begin by carving a circle in the center of the cake in a stabbing motion so the distance between the inner circle and the outside of the cake is about four to five inches. Make multiple inner circles if the diameter of the cake is large enough to do so. Insert the knife into the cake and cut from the center circle to the edge. Remove the knife and place the cake server or spatula into the slit. Make another cut a half inch from the first cut and carefully remove the first slice. Continue around the cake until the entire thing has been sliced.

While working on serving the cake, keep a container of warm water nearby to dip the knife and wipe with a clean cloth between cuts to keep the frosting from sticking. Clean, easy cuts are a snap when you know what you’re doing!

Italian Feast of St. Valentine

Its time to start planning Valentine’s Day dinner. You could always make reservations to eat out, but why not be a little more creative? No matter if you are inviting couples over to share a special evening or dining along with your significant other, I have a great theme for you…the Italian Feast of St. Valentine.

Start by setting the table with a red and white checkerboard tablecloth. A centerpiece down the center of the table consisting of squatty Chianti bottles, thin bread sticks in tall tumblers and a few red globe-shaped candles bring back memories of nights out at an old-fashioned Italian restaurant. Set the table with plates for the main course and serve the food family style. For my party, I found some dinner plates with an olive boarder.

As the guests arrive, the evening begins with serving a mini appetizer buffet of tomato and mozzarella on crostini with a drizzle of balsamic glaze and some delicious stuffed mushrooms. When everyone is seated, whip up a classic Caesar salad. Plate up in the kitchen and use the dinner plate as a charger for the first course. Once everyone is done, bring on the food! Pass around large platters of easy-to-make chicken Parmesan, pasta with a spicy sauce and sauteed broccoli and garlic. Pick up some cannoli from the bakery to round out the meal with a sweet treat.

A Bunch Of Posies

The days are counting down to the holiday of love, St. Valentine's Day. While candy and jewelry are always popular gifts for your sweetie, flowers have and always will be at the top of the list of Cupid's bounty. Now, and at other times of the year, is a great time to give flowers. With a couple of tips, you can create your own beautiful arrangements from inexpensive stems you pick up at the supermarket or neighborhood flower stand.

For the very inexperienced, start with a big bouquet of a single variety like roses, Gerber daises or sunflowers. Place eight to twenty-four stems in a glass container, cutting the stems down so the flower heads created a tight, rounded bouquet at the top of the base. For gift giving, consider tying a colorful ribbon or raffia into a bow around the neck of the base.

For a intermediate design, select a few different specimen of flowers in different shades of the same color. Create a base in the container with some large textural greens from the flower stand or even from your yard. Place the largest blossoms first and fill in the gaps with the smaller flowers, using odd numbers of each type, as they tend to appear in nature.

For a very modern look, select a large, wide mouth cylindrical vase. Fill the vessel to the top with water and submerge large stems of orchids, tulips or other hearty cut flowers in the water, resting on the side of the vase. For an added bit of drama, add a few goldfish to swim amongst the blooms.